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Things To Know About Tommy Dorfman: Married, Partner, Net Worth & Parents


Tommy Dorfman is an American actor and an LGBTQ activist famous for their role as Ryan Shaver in the popular teenage suicide drama Netflix series 13 Reasons Why.

The actor has appeared in several movies and TV shows best known for Love Victor (2020), The Shuroo Process (2021), and Sharp Stick (2021).

Who Is Tommy Dorfman Married To?

Tommy Dorfman married to Peter Zurkuhlen. The couple was engaged to Peter in April 2015 and got married on 12 November 2016. Their wedding was held in Portland, Maine.

The couple first met at a mutual friend’s housewarming party and linked together. After meeting for a while, they started dating and got married.


Tommy Dorfman with partner Peter Zurkuhlen(©

Tommy’s husband, Peter Zurkuhlen, is the CEO and founder of a company known as ChipChop Sytems.

The couple attended the JW Marriott in Los Angeles, whereas Tommy Dorfman gives him a sweet kiss as they hit the blue carpet at the Human Rights Campaign Gala Dinner in 2018.

Is Tommy Dorfman Gay? Holding Hands With Lucas Hedges

Yes, Tommy Dorfman is Gay, and he is proud to become a Gay. Tommy Dorfman and Lucas Hedges, spotted together holding their hands during a friendly outing in Manhattan’s Downtown, are on 19 June 2021.


Tommy Dorfman and Lucas Hedges, Holding their Hands(©

Lucas Hedges is an American actor popularly known for appearing in the Moonrise Kingdom, Lady Bird, and famously known for portraying Patrick Chandler in Manchester by the Sea (2016).

Dorfan is holding his hands, whereas Hedges was carrying a tote bag in one hand. Tommy wore an orange dress, whereas Hedges was wearing daisy duke shorts with crocodile brown heel boots and sunglasses.

Once Tommy Dorfman revealed himself as a non-binary in 2017, Lucas had said his sexuality exists on a spectrum.

As per, Tommy states that:

“Growing up, I hated the idea that clothing was gendered. I identify as non-binary. I present as mostly masculine because it’s just how I feel, but I’ve never had this idea that clothing should be one thing or the other.”

The duo has been friends where Tommy celebrated their birthday with Lucas by their side and spoke friendly about sexuality and gender.

How Much Is The Net Worth Of Tommy Dorfman?

Tommy Dorfman’s net worth is not revealed yet in the public media. However, he has earned a lot of fortune from his professional career as an actor.

Tommy also earned a decent sum of money through various brand endorsements, sponsorship, and promotions.

When Did Tommy Dorfman Start His Acting Career? 

Regarding his professional career, he made his Hollywood debut at the age of 17-years-old in the short film named Foreign Exchange in 2009 as he characterized the role of Jason. After a long wait of almost four years, he made his comeback in 2013 as he appeared in the short film named In My Skin as Julian.

In 2016, Tommy portrayed the role of Big Shot in the TV series named The Yearbook as he made his appearance in 3 episodes. He also worked in a TV series documentary called I, Witness in 2017 as he characterized the role of Rob Jr. in an episode named The Smith Sisters.

Tommy Dorfman’s breakthrough role in his career came in 2017 as he portrayed the role of Ryan Shaver in Netflix’s mystery teen drama TV series 13 Reasons Why. He appeared in all 18 episodes till 2020 alongside Katherine Langford, Dylan Minnette, Alisha Boe, Brandon Flynn, and Christian Navarro.

Tommy appeared in the drama film named Fluidity as Daniel in 2019. In the same year of 2019, he also made his appearance in the American Princess’s TV series as Nick and Jane the Virgin as Bobby.

Some of his TV series and short movies including Expiration Date (2018), Benny Blanco & Juice WRLD: Graduation (2019), Insatiable (2019), Acting for a Cause (2020), Acting for a Cause (2020), and The Shuroo Process (2021).

Besides acting, Tommy is a dancer and model. Dorfan had performed with Atlanta Ballet and is the best friend of the model, Kaia Gerber which he often shared his photos via Instagram.

Tommy has been into modeling as he was the face of Foxes Magazine in 2017 and also been featured by Out Magazine alongside model Hari Nef on their magazine as a cover photo.

Who Is Tommy Dorfman? Age & Parents

Tommy Dorfman was born on 13 May 1992 and raised in Atlanta, Georgia, the United States of America. He is currently 29 years old under the Zodiac sign of Taurus. But, his actual name is Martin Dorfman.

Tommy is American by nationality and belongs to the White ethnicity group with his faith in Christianity.

Regarding his family details, he has not revealed his parents, siblings, and early life, but as per his Instagram post, Tommy had a grandmother in his family.

The 29-years-old actor is a cousin of an American TV personality named Andi Dorfman.

Additionally, Tommy Dorfman is an LGBTQ activist and has been an inspiration to many people and fought against society to establish himself as a gay.

How Tall Is Tommy Dorfman? Educational Background

The American actor Tommy Dorfman stands at the height of 5 feet 11 inches or 1.8 m tall and weighs around 75 kg or 165 lbs.

Concerning his educational background, he studied at Fordham University, where he received a Bachelor of Arts in Acting & Drama in 2015.